Hi, and welcome to my Smart Dating blog!
— If you think that it’s sexy to be smart then this is going to be interesting reading —
My fruitless dating experiences over the past few years led me to create my own dating website and singles events so that I could search for an intellectual companion who matched my curiosity of life and the universe. Heck, if one guy could create the number one dating site in the world all by himself, then I would create the number one smart site…
This was not without effort in trying all the dating sites out there – I must have placed profiles on at least a dozen different sites, from eharmony to match.com to datehookup. Nor did I have any success with exclusive, educated, intellectual, and as such websites, and got tired of dating cardiologists or aspiring novelists. Not that I had trouble finding dates, but for the most part I was bored, and any attraction, if at all, was mostly physical.
Maybe my problem was being too picky, or too strage or just not fitting in – but surely there must be others like me, or maybe I should just give up. Why should I be different? My desire to do things differently, had not made things easy for me in other ways. One failed marriage, two mediocre careers, no family … where do we begin to look for the problem?
So I created BrainiacDating.com to realize my quest. It would be a free dating site, funded at my own expense, and intended not only help me, but others like me out there. Anyone could join, just as long as they could figure out how to fill out a simple personal profile.
This blog is all about my experiences to do with online and offline dating and my dating quest! Feel free to send me your thoughts and ideas, or to post comments.
Lawrence Chernin, PhD.
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